Yes my dear! There is hope out there. Your friends aren’t a great help. You need professionals – „THE A TEAM“. Remember the movie „Hitch, the love doctor“? YEAH! That kind of help is what I’m talking about… There are some good people out there and they can coach you. They obviously know what they are talking about… Check on Matthew Hussey and Bobbi Palmer… I like their mind set, their suggestions and the way they put everything into the right light, making us understand ourselves and the mistakes we subconcioussly do. Enjoy the journey!